Ever had a great idea, only to be told all the resons why it won't work by other people?
You might find this interesting…. Toxic people
#15 – Toxic People – The Honest Guys – #15
Ever had a great idea, only to be told all the resons why it won't work by other people?
You might find this interesting…. Toxic people
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I’ve been trying to raise my moral lately you guys help me alot. I think I’m a toxic person sometimes. I’m trying to do better. Thanks for your advice. Linda
Hi Linda,
Thank you very much for your kind comment.
All the best
THG (Kev and Rick)
We all have a bit of toxicity in us, and we can’t change our personality overnight, but we CAN change.
Just by recognising that perhaps you may say some things you shouldn’t, there is much hope, and change should come for you if you choose to apply it.
You are an amazing person! You can have whatever life you want. If you want to consider yourself as “less toxic” then make a conscious effort and choose to act on that.
Choose today to start living the life you want!
THG (Kev and Rick)
Hi – glad we could help! Dont forget to take a look at the other video we made on “energy vampires” video number #9.
We are constantly adding new videos about how to improve your life, including how to deal with negative situations, so be sure to subscribe to us so you don’t miss out.
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THG (Rick & Kev)
Love the Smile at the end!!!:)-
100% agree, i’m making a video on toxic people soon.
thanks guys i was at a cross road on eliminating some toxic friends from my life and after watching this video i`m know how I`m going to distacne myself from them THANKS
Best thing for you…Distance yourself from them (or at least limit exposure to them) and try to get arounf people that will motivate you and encourage you.
Regards
THG (Kev & Rick)
The key is communication.
Often, people will not even realise that they are being toxic towards you, especially if it is what they do all the time. A simple, non-confrontational word with them explaining your perspetive might solve it.
Failing that, take it to your superiors – you should be able to work in an environment free from this kind of cr*p.
I liked your video so much I reposted it on my Facebook page – Toxic Mom Toolkit. Thanks Guys!
So…..what if you have been married to a toxic person for 40 years?
I guess it’s all about the choices we make in our lives.
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results” – Rita Mae Brown
TheHonestGuys Ain’t that the Truth!
unless you’re married to one – then you must learn to either channel these energies by focusing on what brings THEM upliftment or to transmute them with what becomes a skill of using your own heightened conscious ability to only share and put focus on that which yields crops that are pleasing (i have learned from the very ground – UP)!
afterall – humanity is helping each other and this means we need to learn to uplift and transcend all types…
Im in the process of getting rid of toxic people from my life, im surrounded by loads of them. Good video anyway!
Negative people need to be avoided or maybe helped to become positive people. We have to be kind and loving to people and maybe even more so with toxic ones. I imagine they must feel very badly about their own lives to be so negative with others. It’s kind of sad I think. God bless all the toxic people in the world to be loving and giving.
Loving the channels guys. Keep it up 🙂
what about people who want you to visit them and when you get there they have jobs for you to do like look at a broken fan, vacuum etc,. praising you up ‘what would I do without you’ but they never visit you nor are they able to help you. Are these toxics. I dont want to lose the friend but I dont like being used…help!
firstwavepuresoul If they are using you which it most definitely sounds like they are, then YES they are Toxic people. You deserve better than that! ☺
IF YOU CANNOT GET HAPPY ,,,,,,,,,WE CAN SHOW YOU HOW ………….IF YOU DO NOT WANT HAPPY THAT IS YOUR CHOICE……..
I’ve had to get rid of a lot of toxic people before. I use to wanna’ be friends with everyone, because that’s just how I was but I learned that I can’t do that. No matter how nice you are or how good of a friend you are, some people just don’t give the same treatment back in return. Some of the people I had to stop talking to were family members also. You see, a person can only take so much pain and/or abuse. Just because their “family”, doesn’t mean you can’t remove them from your life. Sometimes it’s for the best. Gotta’ look out for yourself first, because the people who treat you bad sure as h*ll ain’t lookin’ out for you.
Thank you Honest Guys for this video. You have a lot of great videos! ☺