3 steps to turn everyday get-togethers into transformative gatherings | Priya Parker

Why do some gatherings take off and others don't? Author Priya Parker shares three easy steps to turn your parties, dinners, meetings and holidays into meaningful, transformative gatherings.

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22 Comments on 3 steps to turn everyday get-togethers into transformative gatherings | Priya Parker

  1. As long as we put down all technology and focus our attention on people we are with… it’s a great beginning.

  2. Before the Facebook age of enlightenment, I would have agreed with your point on bringing up “risky” topics to spark discussion, but if you try to do that now, in any circle, and have a minority opinion, you will likely immediately be shutdown by the others and potentially ostracized by the rest of the group. Social media has really bolstered our personal biases because it’s allowed us to live in echo chambers, believing that most people think like us, and people that don’t are evil.

  3. Kurt E. Clothier did make a point about minority opinion and social media. However, I think the umbrella theme of doing what you can, where and when you can and as much as you can, is worth noting, and I think a lot of people do that, in their own ways. Even if it’s simply being yourself, where and when you can. And I think we can embrace tradition or we can start new traditions, or merge traditions, because everything and everyone wants to flourish, and even grow and evolve, in their own ways. And this runs across all classes, ages, colors, sizes, sexes and genders, etc. And even introverts go to gatherings, because humans are of a herd mentality, for good reason. We determine our own herds and behave accordingly. Some flourish and some stagnate, and we have a choice. And right now that choice seems to be stagnating in tradition or growing through change. Me, I like growing, and change is scary, but you grow.

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