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"We need to figure out how we go into conversations not looking for the victory, but the progress," says world debate champion Julia Dhar. In this practical talk, she shares three essential features of productive disagreements grounded in curiosity and purpose. The end result? Constructive conversations that sharpen your argument and strengthen your relationships.
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I never saw a title that called me out like this
Hi
In this time, friends are fighting with friends and family’s are fighting with family! It’s crazy
Ditto!
Fact
I should send this to certain family members
All of Twitter needs to hear this lmao
“I never thought about it exactly that way before, what can you share that would help me see what you see?”
Just only talk to either smart people (u only need to listen) or kind people (u can never argue), problem solved.
I enjoy my purposeless and meaningless existence.
Totally with u dude came back to this video to comment back
We need to talk thinking in things about we are same.
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Very beutifull explanation of how to develop constructiv communication with a positive attitude.
Phenomenal.
My favorite book is Nonviolent Communion by Marshall Rosenberg
I’m totally using these suggestions at work.
Easier said then done. Especially if in institutions the practice to clash and triumph are the modus operandi preferred and awarded.
A skill that humans are in desperate need of right now (for friendships, relationships and politically)!
Sadly most conversations seem to come from the perspective of an Olympic sport where ‘winning’ (never conceding to be wrong) is the only objective, whatever the cost!
A lot of people in the US political do not care about this skill. That is why a lot of fights now. Very destructive.
@Cha Ng Indeed. Sadly seems a global problem right now!
I can tell how much creamer she puts in her coffee based on the color of her tongue.
When one side preemptively “cancels” any sort of counter argument and even maligns them publicly, before even hearing them out…there can be no constructive conversation. The other side may take an absurdly hard-line stance, but there is no “cancelling.”
People feel they are forced to turn to alternatives means.
“not looking for the victory but the progress”
Maybe I’m tripping here, but I’m waiting for Hannibal to appear in the middle of the talk to offer her help…
Does anyone know where to find any videos of her father’s interviews?
she is amazing! 😮 The tone of voice, the vocal fry she uses, the notes going high for making a word heard more….. And a comfortable “low” voice for a Lady which makes you want to listen~ Love your words here today! Thank you so~