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When you stop comparing yourself to others, you can accomplish great things, says wheelchair athlete Dean Furness. He shares how, after losing the use of his legs in an accident, he discovered a powerful new mindset focused on redefining his "personal average" and getting better little by little.
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those 1st 30 secs into the talk really hit me. thank you tho
“What lies behind you and what lies in front of you pales in comparison to what lies inside you.”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ya know you can always edit your comments and list the quotes beneath each other right?
@Darth Sol He probably wanted them to be separate, independently-like-able entitites. As they should be
“Don’t compare your beginnings to someone else’s middle.”
– Tim Hiller
hitler was called adolf not tim lmao
@Big Ugly Boy cringe
I was just recovering from crying about not being as good as everybody else when this video popped up on my notifications. I guess I do have to stop comparing myself to others and lead my mind from doing it, not the other way around.
Make some mistakes and don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Then think about them not to make them again. Only with this you will become the person you wanna be. If other people mock you for your mistake, don’t be afraid, they did you a favour to become a better person.
You knew it from the beginning
This talk was just a reminder for you
If you really feel that way I’m sorry for you. I hope this video helped you because this explains very well that you should love yourself no matter what YOU think about yourself. This won’t happen in an instant but it takes time, take that time.
What an AMAZING WIFE!!!!!! GOD BLESS HER!
“Comparison is the thief of all joy”
Never compare yourself with others. And especially when you have your first day in college, don’t compare to other in any case. Because that only land you in low self esteem.
owing to this video, I seem more confident with myself and can appreciate myself better than before. thanks a lot by virtue of producing productive and useful video like that
When you set a goal to achieve, look at the goal not people!
“The right perspective makes the impossible possible”
-Unknown
When you separate yourself from the impossible, you’ll understand the space between “I’m possible.”
“Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today”
I enjoyed this tremendously. I spent part of last year in a wheelchair. Thanks for inspiring me to keep going.
“The right perspective makes the impossible possible”
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self” – Ernest Hemingway