Do you know what you want when you die? Do you know how you want to be remembered? In a candid, heartfelt talk about a subject most of us would rather not discuss, Michelle Knox asks each of us to reflect on our core values around death and share them with our loved ones, so they can make informed decisions without fear of having failed to honor our legacies. "Life would be a lot easier to live if we talked about death now," Knox says. "We need to discuss these issues when we are fit and healthy so we can take the emotion out of it — and then we can learn not just what is important, but why it's important."
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Another one bites the dust
Dun dun dunnnnn
Death is normal if it’s natural
Prophet That’s an insane idea. Death is 100% normal. All organisms eventually die.
its not normal. not ALL organisms die. Jelly fish dont.
Prophet yes they do. If a jelly fish is eaten then it’s dead. Jelly fish do have predators. They can also die of old age.
you dont understand anything it seems. If they didnt have a predator then they’d live forever right?
Prophet Wrong. Again, they can die of age.
I want to be cremated, then my ashes be mixed in paintball rounds, for me to touch my loved ones once more as they blast my ashes away at each other.
Pablo Vidal Peinado calm down ma’am. Its a joke in a YouTube comment section. Pop a Xanax, everything will be okay.
Grizzlyman MeinTeil I understand that I am not calm down on your imagination, but there’s a reality out here, try not to forget that before you burn something down.
Pablo Vidal Peinado yeah, a reality were ashes are ashes and nothing more.
This is fucking badass.
Volvary, that’s really cool. Weirder things have been done to people’s ashes without the deceased’s explicit consent like being snorted, eaten, etc, so the fact that you would have consented to this use of your ashes before dying makes it the most respectful thing for people to do with them. And it’s pretty badass.
Cool.
I want be buried naturally without a coffin and decay back into the the world I started from, not locked in a box. How am I gonna feed the worms?
kircir
Hi Muslim funeral is same as you say in your comment
True
kircir vhhh
Who to talk it with that wont make me sound crazy???
Casket burials are a ripoff and a scam
Vincent RETWEEET
how is it a scam? haha yeah, ripoff very much so.
watch the youtube vid “Adam Ruins Everything – How Funerals Completely Rip Us Off”
A great man once said, “just throw me in the trash. When you’re dead you’re dead, who cares?” That’s my wish. Throw me in the trash, it doesn’t matter.
Beautiful.
Illegal in most places. Cremation, and then disposal however you like of the ashes should be fine.
My dad has held onto a Folgers coffee tin for his ashes. #modestlypricedreceptacle
Throw me in the ocean
Healthy… the irony
Lol this guy gets it.
I want to be cremated into a sculpture of knuckles dabbing
the only thing stupider I have heard (besides youtube comments) are the things people said to me or others when some one passed away.
Aren’t you happy she is with God and can walk? — from my brothers, mother-in-law regarding the passing of my paraplegic sister.
Get better Jeff and you will be playing poker again in no time. — said to my unconscious brother-in-law on his death bed in hospice by my wifes clueless aunt.
Everyone has their own expression of grief. Someone will always be offended by something someone says around the time of death. The grieving are overly sensitive and look for somewhere or someone to direct their anger toward.
no, neither of these people were grieving they are both morons.
^^^exactly!
Wow! there are a few assholes here in the comments, but I really liked the talk 😉
Kay Nabay ted has a very…. interesting..audience. Many of them are backwards trolls
Fat girl protecting another fat girl
So whos the chubby in the Picture then?
I am a hospice nurse and your words are so true. I have been at the bedside of the dying at least 1000 times & so many times the living does not know what the dying want.
Shirley Russo
And that is what?
Hospice nurses are angels. the ones who helped us care for my grandfather at the end of his life gave us the support we needed to respect his end of life wishes. Thank you for your work.
We may experience dying, but we will never experince death,
Peter Velzen hits blunt*
Well, that’s what death means, it is pretty obvious that you won’t experience it.
Im currently a healthy 17 year old. Is that too early to think about death? Like a lot??
Jacob Bellmore I think the earlier you think about it the better. You’ll soon learn to accept it then you can focus on just living your life ❤️
“talk about your health while you are still HEALTHY” guess that means she won’t be talking about it.
You sound like a real gem
I may never meet the speaker, but I think that she is thoughtful and awesome. I hope she enjoys her life to its very end.
I deal with other people’s unexpected deaths every day of my life for my job. The one thing that you can be certain of, your death will rarely come how you wish or when you wish. This talk is *so* on the nose for what you need to be thinking about now that you are alive and well.
Amazing and important TED Talk. You get that the Host knows what she is talking about and i really liked listening to her. There are so many things to get complicated when a loved one dies. These complications could easily be avoided if discussed early. The death of a family member or friend should not be harder than it has to be. Thats why i wrote my will at 30, but after this video i will soon add some more things to it…