Growing up in England, Pico Iyer was taught that the point of a game was to win. Now, some 50 years later, he's realized that competition can be "more like an act of love." In this charming, subtly profound talk, he explores what regular games of ping-pong in his neighborhood in Japan have revealed about the riddle of winning — and shows why not knowing who's won can feel like the ultimate victory.
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I am the first to watch this video
Ping Pong taught me that a chinese person will always be better than you.
Bruuuh moment
Kid singing rap god in front of his school on my channel now
Yep. At everything haha. It’s almost inevitable
I have never been this early to a ted talk, anyone else?
First like, and I’VE ALWAYS LOVED PING PONG
Ping pong is the BEST sport!!! It has helped me focus more and dramatically improve reflexes. Competitive spirit without competition is a wonderful idea! Loved the talk
You was more succint in few minutes, I learn more with you. Thanks.
I was a national champion in Russia as a female JR. Came over to the USA when i was 13 and beat the pants off the juniors over here to the point it wasnt even fun.
When i was on team junior team USA when i played Team Junior China it was a completely different experince and pong was fun again and was massively humbled while being there.
I stopped playing at a world level at 19 to focus on my Law degree.
Who would like to have a friendly ping pong match with Pico?
Ping Pong taught me that even Terry Crews can die.
When you watch Ping Pong the Animation.
Blood tastes like iron
Pakistan sucks in ping pong because they lack the knowledge presented here. All are ego maniacs who refuse to relinquish their titles. Selfish. No imagination. Only few dare play like the Japanese
Something like this?
“When it pings it pongs”
“Life has its pings and pongs”
“There is ping to an every pong”
0:11 Pico Iyer has
It was not so interesting, because all sports do good to our health.
The world needs to know that every time I play my brother Conrad Murray, I always win.
I was in Thailand and I’ve seen a Ping Pong show… not what I’ve expected lmao
So you had never seen world class players play ping pong? Lol i bet you was shocked.. I was junior Russian champion 2 years in a row when i was 11 and 13 coming to USA 2 months before i turned 14.
The game is massively intense and FAST. To onlookers that have never seen high level players are absolutely in shock when they see a set played. They can’t understand how we can play a game that gets moving at that speed and be in control of it 98.5% of the time.
Leggendo il titolo ho pensato fosse Marco Montemagno (italian will understand)
شكرا لك من اعماق قلبي كلام عظيم
“One should use information and logic as a drunkard would use a lamp post – only for support, not for illumination.”
― Sadhguru, Of Mystics & Mistakes
00:16 that’s quite the forehand. Interesting video!
remember the iridocyclitis kid? this is him now, giving ted talks, what are you doing with your life?